The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’”
A person in a successful relationship will ultimately
sound the following sentiments; “Find a guy who calls you beautiful
instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie
under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just
to watch you sleep…wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who
wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds
your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty
without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he
cares and how lucky his is to have you…. The one who turns to his
friends and says, ‘that’s her.’” That’s definitely success in love
It’s February, and love is in the air. Love is very strange. Love is
unconditional commitment to an imperfect individual. You need it but
when you love, it’s like destining yourself for pain. You become
addicted and dependent on the person. You become strong and at the same
time, you open yourself up to being hurt. Love can make you bear any
kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice.
It can also make you feel stupid and act stupidly. Sometimes when you
love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconsciously you only
discover how much you’ve given when the person you love hurts you or has
to say goodbye.
The most important consideration, then, is to make your relationship successful. The following considerations will help cement your relationship in the successful path;
The ending
From the start of the relationship, know what your want to achieve, where is the relationship taking you, what is its ending, is it a short term relationship or a long term relationship. Fine tune your interests to each other, and if the interests do not much you better consider another option. If one of you looks forward for a marriage at the end and the other does not seem to have that in mind then consider your relationship not to be on a successful path
Communication
The one ultimate thing that keeps relationships intact (successful) is communication…and more importantly the non-verbal communication. Know your partners facial expressions and tonal variations, what does it signify at different times? What does she say when she is silent, how does she react when she is annoyed, learn his/her language even when it is not spoken out
Openness
My formula has always been; try to be HOT (Honest, open and transparent) Period. If you got this formula working for you, then you are ultimately successful in your relationship