Success in Love

The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’”

A person in a successful relationship will ultimately sound the following sentiments; “Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep…wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’” That’s definitely success in love

It’s February, and love is in the air. Love is very strange. Love is unconditional commitment to an imperfect individual. You need it but when you love, it’s like destining yourself for pain. You become addicted and dependent on the person. You become strong and at the same time, you open yourself up to being hurt. Love can make you bear any kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice.

It can also make you feel stupid and act stupidly. Sometimes when you love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconsciously you only discover how much you’ve given when the person you love hurts you or has to say goodbye.

Success in Love

The most important consideration, then, is to make your relationship successful. The following considerations will help cement your relationship in the successful path;

The ending
From the start of the relationship, know what your want to achieve, where is the relationship taking you, what is its ending, is it a short term relationship or a long term relationship. Fine tune your interests to each other, and if the interests do not much you better consider another option. If one of you looks forward for a marriage at the end and the other does not seem to have that in mind then consider your relationship not to be on a successful path

Communication
The one ultimate thing that keeps relationships intact (successful) is communication…and more importantly the non-verbal communication. Know your partners facial expressions and tonal variations, what does it signify at different times? What does she say when she is silent, how does she react when she is annoyed, learn his/her language even when it is not spoken out

Openness
My formula has always been; try to be HOT (Honest, open and transparent) Period. If you got this formula working for you, then you are ultimately successful in your relationship